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Question

I have fallen out of love with my husband. Recenlty we separated and he came to fetch me. I came back to him, however he started to cast doubts on me and asked me who im seeing etc. I was talking to people in forums and i have spoken to a couple of guys. My question is that I created doubt in him and I should have been honest to him that I spoke to this people etc also I was sending many texts which he doubted me on. The fact is that I dont love him but what do I do? He loves me to bits and only suggested that I should have told him the truth what do I do?

Answer

You can recite Ayat no.154 of Surah Aal-e-Imraan(3 times)and blow it on the water and share that water with the whole family and besides this you should read YA Wadoodo and YA Salaamo 21 times everyday. We would advise you to be patient on the difficulties you are facing and turn to Allah SWT in prayer, since He is the one who has all the power to make things better. Marriage is an institute which can be as firm as a rock or weak as a thread, it is up to the partners to make it either one. We have to learn to be tolerant of each other for the pleasure of Allah. Insha-Allah when he sees your effort and good character, he will feel like doing the same. May Allah Ta'ala grant you ease and remove the difficulties you are facing presently. May He also grant your husband the understanding and sabr to help you with your problems so that the relationship and bond becomes stronger between you two. Ameen.

And Allah knows best.

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