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Sister, in your situation, you have to listen to your husband. Also you may seek help of Allah through Salaatul Haajah. Please check on the main page for the method of performing it. http://Islameasy.org/Dua_Hajat.php
Marriage is an institute which can be as firm as a rock or weak as a thread, it is up to the partners to make it either one. We have to learn to be tolerant of each other for the pleasure of Allah 'Do not go by the book of 'My Rights'. Go by the book of Love, Ihsaan and khidmat. In other words, if every person goes out of his or her way to fulfill the rights of others, instead of demanding his or her own rights, or goes a step further than just fulfillment of rights, i.e. he or she goes out of his or her way to be kind, caring, loving and forgiving, then automatically this world will become a paradise.
The unfortunate part is that the husband opens the chapter of his rights and the wife opens the chapter of her rights. The parents open the chapter of their rights, and the children, of their rights. The teacher, his
rights and the pupils, their rights, and then everyone demands fulfillment of these rights.
No doubt, rights have been declared so that no person should stop short of their fulfillment, but you cannot have a peaceful society if there is just demand for rights and no fulfillment of corresponding obligations.'
(Hedyatus Saalikeen, selected quotes by Shaykh Yunus Patel, 1998, South Africa)
You can recite Ayat 21 of Surah Rome [Qur'an 30: 21]
Besides this you should read YA Wadoodo and YA Salaamo 21 times everyday.
Kindly review some of the advices on 'Happy Marriage ' Living with Peace and Harmony at Home' at our main page
http://islameasy.org/Marriage_Advice.php
And Allah knows best.
Ask Alimah Team
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