Question

How do I explain to my young child (girl) not to "touch" herself? I have seen her do this a number of times and have told her not to do it without overreacting, but it doesn't seem to work.

Answer

If the child is very young and not at the age of puberty, then most likely they are not aware of the act and are touching out of curiosity and not out of any impermissible act. However, if the child is mature and already at the age of puberty, then it will be necessary to educate the child regarding these manners. Sometimes it is difficult for the parent to speak of such topic to their own children. We advise you to ask an older sibling, a relative, or a friend who is close to your daughter to explain these issues to her.
 

And Allah knows best.

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