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May Allah bless you with piety (Taqwa) and purity, strong emaan,forgiveness of sins, have mercy on you, elevate your status, bless you with knowledge of Deen and generosity. Ameen!
Sister, I totally understand your situation, you may seek help of Allah through Salaatul Haajah. Please check on the main page for the method of performing it.
http://Islameasy.org/Dua_Hajat.php
I know that you are obliged to discipline the children for their errors, of course they will make mistakes and we will guide them from time to time. If you really wants them to be obedient and disciplined, the best thing for that is to have daily Taleem from the book of 'Fazaail-e-Amaal'. Insha Allah in few days you will see a change in them. Daily reading a book of Hadith on good deeds helps in this situation.
You may also read a chapter of Muntakhab Ahadith to your family for 10 minutes together. Then make Dua.
Make an effort to remove any bad literature, digests, TV, pictures and movies from your home. Such things only take the Ummah to a path of immodesty and bad desires.
Kindly review these articles:
Virtues of Prayers (Salah)
http://islameasy.org/pdf/Prayers_Salah.pdf
Virtues of Knowledge
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/MA_Virtues_Ilm.pdf
Virtues of the noble Qur'an
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/MA_Virtues_Quran.pdf
May Allah make her coolness of your eyes. Ameen.
Cure for depression
http://islameasy.org/Cure_Depression.php
How should Every Muslim live through day and night?
http://www.islameasy.org/MuslimDailyLife.php
Prayer and Du'a - Strong connection with Allah
http://islameasy.org/index.php
Urdu lectures on Dua, Zikr and how to achieve success.
http://islameasy.org/tab-weekly-taleem.html
And Allah knows best.
Ask Alimah Team
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