Question

I am engaged to a man who is well-behaved. But since recently, I've been noticing him admiring celebrity women in a social website. This really upsets me. I clearly dont want my future husband to be admiring non-believing women.

Answer

For marriage, a religious person is better for both this life and hereafter. 'Religious' does not mean who prays and fast only - the definition is 'who abstains from all sins' - this includes our dailiy life, food, finances, dress, full hijab, manners and purification of heart - read the article and Khutbah on our site and listen to leactures .. inshaAllah your knowledge will increase.

Make your choice for Taqwa (piety) instead of just looking for the apparent beauty or wealth. Learn, study and make Istekhara and Salatul Hajat regarding marriage decisions.

You can make Dua for his guidance, encourage his parents to create an Islamic environment in their home.

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Recite this Tasbeeh everyday.
LA HAULA WA LA QUWATA ILLA BILLAHIL ALIEL AZEEM
Translation: 'There is no strength (to refrain from sins but with the protection from Allah) and there is no power (to accomplish good deeds) but with the help of Allah, the High, the Supreme'

To keep good motivation, you may listen to some lecture and articles on our site.

Purpose of Life (lecture)
http://islameasy.org/bayan/Taleem/PurposeOfLife.mp3

Cure for depression
http://islameasy.org/Cure_Depression.php

Daily reading a book of good deeds with your family will help them understand the purpose of life. You may print a chapter of Muntakhab Ahadith
http://www.islameasy.org/quick_books.php

and read with your family for 10 minutes together, then make Dua.

http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Emaan.pdf
http://www.islameasy.org/pdf/Belief_Hereafter.pdf

And Allah knows best.

Ask Alimah Team

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