Question

I want to know some dua for my husband who is a good human in every way but he is very fond of porn movies and morally bad things like dances, obscene songs.... its very hurting and sometimes push me into depression that it will cause ALLAH anger...now I am a mother of 1 month old son ..i am more worried..plz tell me some dua of Wazifa that might help me in turning my husband's heart away from these things and let him be a good muslim as ALLAH Talah wants us to be...

Answer

Firstly:
do not feel too shy to speak to your husband and advise him about these matters, because speaking to him may be more beneficial and make it easier to find a solution. Exhort him and speak to him in an effective manner such as will reach his heart; remind him of the punishment and wrath of
Allah; the torment of Hellfire; remind him of the trust and the responsibility he has towards his wife and children, (as in the hadeeth):
'Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock;
the man is the shepherd of his household and is responsible for those under his care.'

One of his rights over you is that you should tell him that what he is doing to you is a sin, and that watching these filthy movies is keeping him away from Allah and from remembering Him. Perhaps he will repent and pay heed to your words. Keep repeating that to him, with wisdom and paying attention to what is in your best interests. If he does not respond, then seek the help of someone who you think he will listen to, such as knowledgeable and righteous people, relatives, friends or anyone who may
have some influence over him.

Secondly:
Try to get him to listen to some effective tapes of khutbahs, speeches and lessons, directly or indirectly, and give him some Islamic books, so that maybe his heart will be opened to the truth.

Thirdly:
If none of this has any effect, then appoint an arbitrator from his family and an arbitrator from your family, who you think will be able, by their involvement, to improve the relationship between you and make him give up the evil things he is involved in. These arbitrators should be righteous people, in accordance with the words of Allah
(Interpretation of the meaning):

'If you fear a breach between them (the man and his wife),
appoint (two) arbitrators, one from his family and the other from hers; if they both wish for peace, Allah will cause their reconciliation. Indeed Allah is Ever All-Knower, Well-Acquainted with all things'
[al-Nisaa' 4:35]

If these two arbitrators wish for peace, then we ask Allah to bring you back together in a good and proper manner and to reconcile you with the best relationship there can be between a husband and wife.

In this difficult situation, you must turn to Allah and seek His Help and ask for guidance to make the right decision. We remind you again that it is your duty to remind and advise this man in all situations.

Salat-ul Hajat http://islameasy.org/Dua_Hajat.php ]
 

And Allah knows best.

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