Question

I want to marry a guy we both like each other our parents met but they didnt like families and rejected, we are both mature and doing jobs , we arent in very young age so that we cant accept any life partner just chosen by parents, now problem is I have many proposals, and i cant reject them without any reason because they are good i want dua so that proposals stop to come for me i really dont want to get married to anyone else, i am not in mental state to accept any other guy, kindly tell me dua so that both of out parents agree for this proposal.

Answer

You should do Istikhara to find out whether that person is right for you or not. You can pray Salatul Istikhara when seeking guidance from Allah.
This is a 2 rakah prayer followed by a Du'a.

The most preferred time for this prayer is the last portion of the night before the fajr prayer. But you can pray it at other times too.
http://www.Islameasy.org/images/Treasures-Large/46.htm

It is an ibadah to seek help from Allah. We should not become despondent if our Dua's have not been answered. It may be that Allah Ta'ala has bestowed on us another bounty, or granted us relief from a difficulty, or
a reward is given to us in the Akhirah in place of it. Alhamdulillah, Allah Ta'ala always grants us what is best for us and we should not be hasty or ungrateful.

In addition, it is important to research and read books and articles on marriage so that we look for the qualities in a man that are pleasing to Allah Ta'ala. There are articles on this website too. Do read them and acquire the knowledge of Deen.

May Allah Ta'ala grant you a spouse that will be the coolness of your eyes. Ameen!

Cure for depression
http://Islameasy.org/Cure_Depression.php

Cure for Pre-Marriage Love Relationship which does not lead to a Marriage
http://www.Islameasy.org/Cure_PreRelations.php

And Allah knows best.

Ask Alimah Team

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