Worshipping our Creator, acquiring knowledge to become an ideal believer, serving humanity, making efforts in helping fellow human beings to be loved by Allah should be our mission. Deeds done with a pure heart, sincere intentions, with humility, love and care fulfills the mission of life. Imagine a believer who always remembers and seeks help from his Creator, praises Allah by her tongue, in her heart, expresses gratitude for His bounties, is patient in hardships. She supplicates in all earnestness and always has good intentions. She follows the Hijab and Sunnah in her outward appearance and in her manners, conduct and etiquette. She is getting rewards at every step.
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The best advice for all the aforementioned is the Sunnah of the Prohphet Muhammad Sallalalho alaihi wasalam. Follow the Sunnah and shariah of Islam, the teachings of the Noble Quran and inshaAllah you will have all that you have asked for and even that which you could never imagine.
If you want to be a role model for your family, be a good ambassador of Islam. Be prompt with your Salah. Be good in your dealings whether they are with Muslims or not. Do not lie, even if you are at loss. Fulfill promises. Be trustworthy. These are just a few qualities that a Muslim role model possesses. There are many if one looks at the life of the Prophet Muhammad sallalaho alaihi wasalam.
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If you would like to be mutaqqi, always fear Allah. Acquire means of halal earning. Leave haram. Leave that which is doubtful.
If you would like to please your parents and sisters, help them in their times of need. Serve them kindly and look at them in a loving manner. Care for them and please them.
This life is a one-time opportunity to achieve everlasting happiness in the life hereafter. Allah Almighty is showering countless blessings upon us every day. Every moment has a great potential to achieve high-ranks in the court of our Creator. Every minute is like a gold coin. The heart and tongue are gifts from Allah to earn millions of rewards for the life Hereafter.
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And Allah knows best.
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